About Jacqueline Hogan

Specialist in Couples Counselling

For Couples Seeking Lasting Change

Based in peaceful McCrae, on the beautiful Mornington Peninsula with Online Couples Counselling available Australia Wide.

Helping Couples Create Stronger Marriages and Deeper Connections

Hi, I’m Jacqui,

I know first-hand how challenging relationships can be – I’ve been there myself! I’ve faced hardships and made mistakes that could’ve been avoided, if only I’d sought help from a couples counsellor sooner.

That’s why I’m so passionate about helping couples, perhaps just like you, create stronger, healthier relationships.

Now, as an experienced specialist in couples counselling, I’m dedicated to helping you repair and strengthen your relationship. My focus is on guiding you toward a happier, healthier relationship while reducing the pain, stress, and frustration you may be feeling during this difficult time.

I help you feel heard and understood by your partner, to truly facilitate lasting change, while giving you practical ways to rebuild trust and create lasting harmony in your relationship.

Many couples carry layers of past trauma, unhelpful beliefs, and patterns of behaviour that hold them back from the love and connection they deserve. We’ll work through these challenges together because I believe everyone deserves to feel loved, safe, and happy in their relationship.

I’ve dedicated my career to improving not just my clients’ relationships, but also their overall wellbeing. When your relationship thrives, you thrive – and vice versa. This creates a ripple effect of positivity in your life, relationship, family and community.

Years

Counselling & Industry Experience

Years

Specialising in Couples Counselling

Hours

In Session – Helping Couples Since 2017

My Professional Memberships

Where It All Started

I first saw a counsellor about 28 years ago during a particularly difficult time in my life. I had reached the point where I felt like I had no other option. Nervous but determined, I sat down to speak with the counsellor, not realising that in the next hour, my life was about to change forever.

Counselling didn’t just change my life – it saved it.

Counselling saved me from repeating the same mistakes and finally helped me break free from my own negative patterns of behaviour. It also freed me from enduring further toxic relationships.

Through counselling, I gained the strategies, resilience, and clarity I needed to completely transform my life.

When I look back on that time now, I smile. I still remember that pull inside me. The voice, the drive, the passion, that continues to inspire me to this day.

The voice said:

This is what I am going to do now. I am going to be a counsellor… I am going to save others from years of hardship and negative relationships, and I am going to save them from the pain I went through...

The inspiration for my comprehensive and empowering Save My Marriage Program stems from this pivotal moment in my life.

Specialist Couples Counselling & Relationship Training

Relational Life Therapy – Level 3 (Couples Counselling) – Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
Working with Infidelity and Making Love Work – Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
Multi-generational Trauma: Treating the Past to Heal the Present – Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
Relational Life Therapy – Level 1 & 2 (Couples Counselling) – Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
Staying in Love – The Art of Fierce Intimacy – Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
Working with Men – Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
Grandiose Women and Shut Down Men – Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
Rekindling Desire – Esther Perel
Hypnosis Masterclass: Experiential Treatment of Depression
Treating Affairs and Trauma – Gottman Institute
Gottman Method Couples Counselling – Level 3 – Gottman Institute
Applying Clinical Hypnosis in Psychotherapy – Michael Yapko, Ph.D
Gottman Method Couples Counselling – Level 1 & 2 – Gottman Institute
Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy
Bader-Pearson Developmental Model of Couples Counselling
The Relational Brain – Terry Real and Julianne Shore, Relational Life Institute

Formal Education

Bachelor of Social Work (BASW) – Latrobe University
Diploma of Counselling Psychology – Ampersand Australia, 2009

Additional Relevant Training to Support Couples

Next Level Practitioner Training – Various topics (shame, belonging, trust, resentment, etc.) – Ongoing
Psychological Approaches for Clients with Weight Concerns – ACFED
Ron Siegel – National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine, 2017/2018
Sue Johnson – National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine, 2017/2018
Neuropsychological Perspective of Memory on Mental Health – Mental Health Professional Network, 2017
An Evening with Eckhart Tolle – Eckhart Tolle, Melbourne, 2017
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy – Mental Health Academy, January 2016
Trauma-Focused Therapy – Working with Children and Adolescents – Phoenix Australia Centre for Post-traumatic Mental Health, 2016
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy – Mental Health Academy, January 2016
Group Therapies and Strategies – Mental Health Academy, January 2016
Practical Skills in the Treatment of Trauma & Dissociation: Working with Child & Adolescent Trauma Victims – Dianne Starkey & Judy Christian, 2015
Supervisor Training – 2015
Indigenous Counselling – Mental Health Academy, September 2015
Assisting Survivors of Torture and Trauma – Companion House, 2015
Helping Clients Cope with Loss and Grief – Mental Health Academy, 2015
Motivational Interviewing – Mental Health Academy, 2015
Positive Behaviour Management in Schools – Ian Luscombe, 2014
Pyrroles Disorder – Dr Alison Knight, 2014
Art and Play Therapy – Jacki Short, Centre for Community Welfare Training, 2014
Exploring e-Mental Health Programs – Julie Reynolds, ANU, 2014
Working Together to Support a Child with Autism Spectrum Disorder Experiencing Sleep Disturbance (webinar) – Prof Shantha Rajarathnam, 2014
Self-Harm and Suicidal Behaviours among Young People (webinar) – Jo Robinson and Dr Simon Rice, APS, 2014
Neuroscience 101 – Mark Waldman, 2014 – Ongoing
Public Speaking and Training (Webinar) – Mark Richards and Jason Reid, 2015

How Jacqui Helps You

Discover how Jacqui combines multiple therapies and specialised training to support you through this difficult time.

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From Small Steps to Leaps & Bounds

I took my first small step into counselling nearly 30 years ago by attending a six-week introductory course. I was hooked and never looked back.

I loved it! I loved learning new skills and applying them with family and friends. From there, I immersed myself in professional development workshops with the Australian Psychological Society, gradually building my knowledge and confidence.

My next step was volunteering. I trained with Lifeline Central Victoria, learning Suicide Risk Assessment skills, and spent several years as a Telephone Counsellor, all while raising my two children and running a cleaning business in Bendigo.

Formal Training & Career Growth

Eventually, I gathered the courage and took a big leap: I applied to study at LaTrobe University! I’ll never forget the joy and disbelief I felt when I received my acceptance letter.

I completed a Bachelor of Social Work, and was drawn to the areas of childhood trauma and relationships. This foundation helped me deepen my understanding of the challenges families and couples face. From there, I worked in a women’s refuge and later in Child Protection with the Department of Human Services, where I supported parents navigating hardship.

To expand my expertise, I also completed a Diploma of Counselling Psychology, implementing many strategic interventions and theories into my practice, including:

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy
Positive Psychology
Curiosity and Ignorance Framework
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and more.

Specialist Relationship Training

My passion for learning never faded. I’ve completed advanced training in top relationship therapies, including:

Gottman Method Couples Counselling – Level 1, 2, and 3
Relational Life Therapy (RLT) with Terry Real – Level 1, 2, and 3

I’ve also completed training in neuroscience and mindfulness meditation, to help clients manage stress, understand their emotions, and navigate difficult transitions.

The Next Chapter Begins - Moving to McCrae

In 2023, my partner Lee and I relocated to McCrae on the stunning Mornington Peninsula, just an hour’s drive from Melbourne. From my new location, I offer in-person counselling as well as online sessions via Zoom, continuing to support couples wherever they are.

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How I work

I blend three key areas into my couples counselling to help you achieve deep transformation and unlock the most meaningful rewards in your relationship.

1. Evidence Based Relationship Therapies

I use trusted theories and frameworks that have stood the test of time, backed by years of research and study. This includes Gottman Therapy, which provides a structured and evidence-based approach to improving communication and relationship dynamics. Relational Life Therapy, on the other hand, offers a more flexible and deeply personal approach to achieving relationship transformation and growth. These therapies, along with other evidence-based approaches I integrate, are practical, effective, and designed to directly address the unique challenges in your relationship.

2. Helpful Resources & Adaptive Strategies

My specially crafted resources and dynamic approach are designed to fit your unique needs and preferred learning style. Whether we’re using structured exercises to improve communication skills, or engaging in free-flowing therapeutic conversations, there’s always a style and strategy to help you achieve the shifts you're looking for. Every session is tailored to suit your needs and help you feel supported, empowered and confident as you work toward your personal and relationship goals.

3. Superior Support & Ongoing Development

Change can feel uncomfortable, but you don’t have to face it alone. This powerful pillar of ongoing care and support, provided through my programs and platforms, is here to help you feel confident, committed, and equipped with the right guidance and tools. Feel motivated and encouraged to stay on track, step outside your comfort zone, and achieve the breakthroughs you desire. From managing heightened emotions to celebrating positive progress and outcomes, I'm here with you every step of the way. Together, we’ll navigate the challenges of change and discomfort, moving toward a happy, strong, and resilient relationship.

Learn more about how I work by watching this video and discover how I blend different therapies to provide you with tailored support that works for you.

Create The Life & Relationship You Desire

I’ve combined my passion, life experience and professional expertise to develop my unique programs and helpful products to empower you for relationship happiness, personal growth & success.

These programs and resources have proven to be key for my clients transformation and success.

If you’re ready to take the first step, give me a call or let me know what’s going on for you, and together let’s explore how I can help.

Living What I Teach

Outside of Couples Counselling, I enjoy bushwalking, pilates, and spending time at the beach. I also love riding my bike and exploring a deeper connection with nature.

I value spending time with Lee, my family and friends, and I’m grateful for living in an amazing location by the beach with an abundance of things to do and people to meet.