Save My Marriage Program
With Couples Counsellor Jacqui Hogan
Are Breakdowns in Your Relationship Wearing Thin?
Get Couples Counselling Support
If you’re feeling stressed, frustrated or heart-broken with conflicting emotions and ongoing relationship issues, ease the burden and learn about Jacqui’s popular Save My Marriage Program.
Discover how it’s possible to restore your loving relationship built on a new foundation of trust, respect, love and forgiveness.
Get in touch with Jacqui to talk through your particular situation or read on to hear how you can turn your relationship around in the Save My Marriage Program.
Jacqui has helped hundreds of couples repair their relationship and lead happier, healthier lives.
When Enough is Enough
It’s Time for Change!
Escalating Conflict
Out-of-control arguments and escalating conflict is damaging to your relationship, and those around you, including children
Betrayal & Infidelity
Broken trust, lies and betrayal are particularly hurtful. Infidelity causes feelings of shame & guilt, and is a common cause of separation & divorce.
Unrelenting Stress
Stress and pressure compound on a daily basis, and left unmanaged can take a devastating toll on your relationship. Destructive behaviour destabilises the relationship.
Broken Communication
Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness & Stonewalling are clear signs of broken communication. Known as the 'Four Horsemen' - they're especially destructive and will tear your relationship apart.
Negative Sentiment
Constantly seeing the negative in your partner and harbouring resentment erodes the connection in your relationship. Left unchecked you will drift further apart and find it increasingly difficult to communicate and see eye to eye.
Severed Connection
Mismatched values, different goals, and a different life direction all lead to disconnection. With no passion and care, your relationship is disconnected. With no shared hopes and dreams to keep the relationship alive, there's little to look forward to but a life of unending misery.
Avoidant Behaviour
Avoiding the problems in your relationship is a heavy burden to carry and eventually wears you down. Depression, sadness, poor sleep and low energy are all common signs of carrying a burden. Many will seek comfort and solace outside the relationship, but the problems remain.
Complex Layers
Family, Children, Childhood, Past trauma, Work, Finances, Mental Health and Life's responsibilities are just some of the complex layers influencing your relationship. Left untreated & unmanaged you can feel overwhelmed and defeated - fracturing the quality of the relationship.
Feeling Unloved
Emotional distance and unavailability leaves one or both partners feeling unfulfilled and lonely. When love goes cold your relationship is at risk of being de-railed.
Happy Healthy Relationships
Stronger Together...
Reduce Conflict
De-escalte conflict and manage your emotions. Process underlying issues calmly, hold regard for each other, and welcome a new respectful way of communicating.
Healthy Communication
It's crucial the 'Four Horsemen' are eliminated from your relationship as soon as possible. In fact it's essential, for the healing work to begin. After slaying the Four Horsemen, you'll discover how to have healthy and respectful conversations. Feel heard. Start softly and express your needs clearly and calmly. Improve listening and understanding.
Taking Responsibility
Empowerment comes through taking responsibility. Disrupt negative thought patterns, and retire old unhelpful beliefs and behaviours. Sharpen your character, identity, and find your reason to change and live in alignment with your empowering set of values to achieve peace, harmony & fulfilment in your relationship. Feel safe, appreciated and loved, in your happy, secure relationship.
Rebuild Trust
Process infidelity, betrayal and broken trust in a safe space. Move through feelings of grief, shame & guilt toward forgiveness. Create a healthy space in your relationship with new standards to support each other, empathise, forgive, understand and recover.
Cherish & Respect
Dissolve negative sentiment and release negative thoughts and feelings clouding your relationship. Break free from unhelpful patterns and behaviours suffocating your relationship. Invite positive sentiment into your relationship and see the 'good' in your partner more often. Feel closer, happier, accepted and loved. Know your partner intimately. From life values to childhood dreams. Increase the fondness and admiration in your relationship.
Life Balance
Find life balance and manage complex layers in your life & relationship. Acceptance, boundaries, support, and personal health, as well creating a inspiring life vision are all part of getting through difficult times and strengthening the bond you share.
Reduce Stress
Manage stress with love & kindness. Find healthy outlets and create boundaries to protect your relationship. Support each other and work together as a team to get through difficult times.
Warm Connection
Discover your shared values. Create new rituals of connection. Feel heard by your partner. Be valued, and support each other. Find common ground and know how to resolve tension before it becomes a problem. Be supported through change with a new sense of relational awareness. Feel calm and be emotionally grounded as you grow and nurture your relationship into the future.
Rekindle Love & Affection
Spark new love and affection. Welcome fondness and a close, warm connection, built on trust and a deeper emotional bond. Communicate on a deeper level, feel heard, understood and admired for who you are. Let love in and dissolve emotional blocks.
Start With a Discovery Session
Get in touch with Jacqui and talk through your particular situation, with someone who understands, and cares what you’re going through.
See Jacqui online via zoom from the comfort of home, or have an in-person session at her private and comfortable McCrae location, on the Mornington Peninsula, just south of Melbourne.
For Couples on the Brink of Divorce
Begin Emotional Healing
- Release shame, guilt, sadness, anger and frustration.
- Resolve perpetual problems and reach a happy compromise.
- Restore communication with kindness, compassion and sincerity.
- Rebuild trust, find forgiveness, and heal broken hearts.
- Nurture your relationship and develop a deeper connection.
What Clients Are Saying
Save My Marriage Program, Developed by Jacqueline Hogan – A Life Changing Opportunity for Couples
Life Changing Resources
In addition to your 1:1 counselling sessions, receive additional support with Jacqui’s helpful resources to restore harmony in your relationship during this difficult time.
- Easy step-by-step program developed by Jacqui to rekindle love and connection between your 1:1 sessions.
- Helpful exercises to strengthen your relationship and breakthrough personal blocks.
- Repair relationship problems calmly with Jacqui's popular 'Smooth Conversation Cards'.
- Discover your shared relationship values with Jacqui's powerful Life Values cards.
- Ignite new passion, fun & romance with 'Love Sparks' - Jacqui's relationship affirmation cards.
- Premium Members Area access to Jacqui's libraray of resources including guided meditations, eBooks, videos & more to support your relationship transformation & success.
Expert Couples Counsellor & Coach
Trained & Experienced
Turn Your Relationship Around
I developed the Save My Marriage Program to stop couples from suffering any further and get the immediate support they need.
Get one-on-one support with me during this difficult time to work through your issues swiftly and get the transformation you desire sooner.
I use proven methods and leading resources from the best in couples therapy, including the Gottman Institute and Relational Life Therapy – by Terry Real.
Easy Online Sessions
All my couples shifted to marriage counselling online with ease during 2020. With Covid-19 and ongoing disruptions – Online marriage counselling has proven to be a very effective and popular option.
In-person McCrae Location
Learn about our new location for in-person couples counselling in McCrae on the Mornington Peninsula! It’s just a short 1 hour drive south from Melbourne.
Jacqui Hogan
Couples Counsellor – BASW, Dip PsyC, Gottman Lvl 3, RLT Lvl 3
Jacqui uses proven therapies – blending years of couples research from the Gottman Institute with the latest in neuroscience & Relational Life Therapy.
Personal Support & Guidance
- Personalised therapeutic sessions and superior support guide you through discomfort and difficult issues sensitively with a positive outlook.
- Improve your confidence and self-worth with bonus access to Jacqui’s mindfulness and meditation programs & couples resources in the private members area.
- Reduce stress, feel relaxed and start being the best partner you can be. Live happier with more energy and zest for life!
- Create a warm environment around your relationship to support new growth through difficult times.
Deep Relationship Transformation
“By the 12th appointment it was really clear why Jacqui structures the program the way she has.
We did the majority of our sessions via Zoom calls, this worked really well for us with young kids and having a distance to travel to get to Bendigo.
The program is very confronting and you learn a lot about yourself and your partner, but Jacqui is very supportive and adds cheeky humour to lighten the mood along the way.
Our marriage is still not perfect, but we are getting there and the tools and techniques we learnt throughout the program will be with us for life.
For this, I thank you Jacqui and would recommend you to anyone of any age.”
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Book Your Discovery Session
Jacqui Hogan – Couples Counsellor
BASW, Dip PsyC, Gottman Lvl 3, RLT Lvl 3
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