Discover what truly matters. Explore, reflect, and reconnect.
Just Getting Started with Life Values?
Welcome!
The Life Values Virtual Deck is an interactive way to explore what really matters to you, in life, love, and everything in between.
You can start with the free preview version to take it for a test drive and get a feel for how it works.
If you’re already a client working with me, simply log in to the Members Area for full access to the pro version.
Not a client? – No problem: You can upgrade to the full pro version anytime from our online shop for a small one-off fee.
When you’re ready, open the Virtual Deck and try these ideas below to get started.
Three great ways to get started:
- Explore the Life Values Cards
Simply browse through the cards and notice which ones resonate. Click the info icons to learn more about what each value means, and ask yourself, or your partner, the reflection questions on the cards to spark conversation and insight. - Choose a Predefined Set or Power Combo
Select a themed set for relationships, growth, well-being, or communication. Each one focuses on a specific topic or challenge. Reflect on how these values could inspire action, restore balance, or guide you through something you’re facing right now. - Create Your Own Top Values List
Build your own top 10 or shared values set for your relationship, family, or team. Use drag-and-drop (desktop) or filters to organise your priorities, clarify decisions, and bring more balance to your life.
Life Values help you live in alignment with what truly matters. From loving relationships to meaningful work, and life balance.
The Virtual Deck makes it simple to explore, reflect, and take action toward your most ambitious goals and most intimate, meaningful relationship.
Understand the Benefits
What it’s For
Life Values and the Virtual Deck help you:
- Understand what truly matters to you and those around you.
- Strengthen communication and empathy through shared understanding.
- Gain personal clarity for confident decision-making.
- Reduce stress and confusion by aligning your choices with your values.
- Build emotional safety, trust, and awareness, essential for strong relationships and leadership.
Whether you’re using them for personal reflection or while working with me (Jacqui) in one of my couples counselling programs, the Deck brings clarity, focus, and meaning to the parts of life that matter most.
Why Values Matter
Values are the invisible drivers of behaviour (whether you’re aware of them or not)
They influence what you believe, how you respond, and how you connect with others.
They shape:
- Your priorities and principles.
- Your reactions, communication style, and emotional tone.
- Your sense of purpose, balance, and wellbeing.
When values are misunderstood or out of alignment, conflict and frustration often follow.
Couples, for example, may clash because they’re:
- Unaware of their own or each other’s values.
- Following inherited or outdated values.
- Living with competing priorities.
Understanding your values, and your partner’s – creates a foundation of empathy and understanding, helping you create more balance, and unity.
The Deck turns something abstract into something you can see, discuss, and work with, making personal growth and relationship change far more achievable – and even fun!
Ready to Begin?
Try the Life Values Virtual Deck today.
Explore your cards, discover your top values, and start conversations that matter.
Every insight you gain brings more clarity, connection, and confidence in yourself and in your relationships. Click here to try the preview version.
Looking for deeper insights?
Download the free Life Values Mastery ebook and tap into the advanced concepts, exercises and reflection prompts to take you personal development and growth to the next level.
Virtual Deck FAQ
What are the Predefined Sets?
Predefined Sets are themed groups of values that help you explore specific life areas, such as relationships, wellbeing, communication, or personal growth. Each set gives you a clear starting point for reflection, making it easier to focus on what matters most right now.
What are Power Combos?
Power Combos are small focused sets of 2–3 Life Values cards designed to target specific goals or challenges you might face. They are helpful when you are feeling stuck, need a mindset shift, are feeling frazzled or uncertain. They cover many life themes and scenarios, and each have a unique name.
For example ‘The Clarity Key’ Power Combo uses ‘Awareness’, ‘Focus’ and Simplicity’ and its purpose is: “For clearing the noise – simplify, refocus, and reconnect to what’s true.”
Explore all the combo’s and find ones that resonate with what you need right now, or keep them up your sleeve to use in the moment, flexibly and dynamically.
How do I save my own sets?
When you’ve chosen your cards, simply click the Save Set button and give it a name. Your sets are stored in your browser’s local storage, so they’ll still be there when you return, as long as you use the same device and browser. You can save multiple sets, rename them, or delete them any time.
For long term saving, you might like to take a screenshot.
Can I reorder or sort the cards?
Yes! On desktop, you can drag and drop cards to sort or prioritise your selections. On mobile, use the Sort and Filter buttons to organise cards by colour category, or alphabetical order. In addition you can select and unselect cards as you need and toggling ‘show selected’ can help you focus on the Life Values of interest.
How do I use the deck with my partner?
You can explore the deck together on the one device, which doubles as a fun, insightful activity you can do together – that helps build connection. Or you might like to create your own sets and start conversations based on your choices.
There are countless ways to use the cards, and as you’ll discover, it’s a powerful way to open conversations, explore meaning, differences, where you align, and what’s behind friction – perhaps identifying an opportunity for growth.
What's the difference between the free version and the full Pro Deck?
The Free Preview version lets you explore a sample of Life Values and try out the core experience. Select, reflect and see how values shape your decisions and relationships. It’s a great way to take the Deck for a “test drive” and start discovering what really matters to you.
The Full Pro Version unlocks the complete collection of 214 Life Values, all Predefined Sets and Power Combos. With the ability to save, sort and filter it’s ideal for deeper work – whether you’re using it personally, with your partner, or as part of Jacqui’s programs.
What's the difference between the virtual deck and the printed deck?
The Life Values Virtual Deck is designed for convenience, flexibility, and ease of use. It lives on your phone or computer, so it’s always accessible when you need it. The virtual format also includes helpful features such as curated sets and power combos, making it easy to explore your values, save sets and revisit them over time.
The Printed Life Values Deck, on the other hand, offers a more personal and reflective experience. It’s a premium set of physical cards designed to be used at home – spread out on a table, arranged into your own sets, or pinned to a vision board.
There’s something grounding and meaningful about holding the cards in your hands and exploring them together. Whether that’s with your partner, family, at work, or during quiet moments of reflection.
Both formats support the same core work, but in different ways. Many people choose one based on how they like to reflect and engage, while others, including many of my clients, enjoy the benefits of using both together.
Life Values is also included as part of the Relationship Repair Kit, which brings several tools and resources together in one structured support package.
What's the lifetime value of upgrading?
Upgrading to the Pro Deck gives you lifetime access, with no subscriptions and no expiry dates to worry about. You’ll always have full use of the Deck, including any future updates and improvements as they’re released.
But the real value goes beyond the Deck itself. As a Pro user you’ll also gain access to specific bonus resources and exercises drawn from Jacqui’s extensive library and the Life Values Method™.
These resources are designed to help you:
- Apply your insights in real life through structured reflection and meaningful conversation.
- Deepen communication and emotional safety with your partner.
- Integrate your values work with other tools like Smooth Conversations, the Weekly Couples Catchup, journalling, meditation, and more.
As new materials are added over time, you benefit from ongoing support and inspiration. Perfect as you evolve and navigate your way through the changing seasons of life.
