Relationship Repair Kit

A Self-Guided Relationship Repair Kit

By Jacqueline Hogan – Couples Counsellor

Create clarity, connection and a positive reset – from the comfort of home.

If your relationship feels tense, distant, or stuck in the same unhelpful patterns, this kit offers a calm and practical place to begin.

The Relationship Repair Kit is designed for couples who want to work on their relationship at their own pace.

It brings together my most helpful relationship tools into one simple kit that includes a guided process to help you understand what’s going on and take meaningful steps together.

What This Kit Helps You Do

• Make sense of where your relationship is right now
• Improve communication without arguments or blame
• Rebuild warmth, appreciation, and emotional safety
• Focus your energy on what matters most, instead of trying everything at once

Each element builds on the next, creating a gentle but structured path toward calmer conversations and deeper connection.

What’s Included

1. Relationship Strength Assessment (x2)

Begin with a quiet, reflective check-in.
Each partner completes the Relationship Strength Assessment, which explores the key themes of a healthy relationship and highlights broad areas of strength and strain.

The assessment helps you:

• Notice patterns between you
• Identify areas that may need attention
• Decide where to focus first

Your results are designed to guide your next steps, and support you taking action to strengthen your relationship.

You’ll also receive:

• The Relationship Strength Guidebook – to help you understand your results in a clear, supportive way.
• RSA Journal – a space to reflect privately, note insights, and track changes over time

2. Smooth Conversations – for Calm Communication

When conversations turn tense or go nowhere, this deck helps you slow things down and reconnect with curiosity.

Use these question cards to:

• Start softly, and communicate calmly and kindly
• De-escalate tension and conflict before it spirals
• Build emotional safety through understanding
• Reconnect and repair with more unity and harmony, instead of avoidance, blame or shame.

Smooth Conversations are ideal for couples who struggle with communication in any way.

3. Life Values – for Meaning, Alignment and Direction

Understanding each other’s values can shift your relationship profoundly.

These cards and exercises support you to:

• Discover what truly matters in your relationship.
• Understand and respect differences without power struggles.
• Make decisions that align with your shared future

A deeper sense of meaning and purpose often begins by understanding your values together.

4. Love Sparks – for Daily Connection

Small gestures make a big difference.

Love Sparks are simple, heartfelt relationship affirmations that encourage appreciation, kindness and affection – even when your busy.

Use them to:

• Create positive moments each day
• Rebuild goodwill and emotional closeness
• Strengthen your connection through small, meaningful actions

Bonus Resources

• Relationship Repair Kit Guidebook – A clear, practical guide showing how to use each tool together, step by step.
• Vision Board Kit – Explore shared hopes and goals for the next chapter of your relationship.
• Think, Love & Kindness Program – A gentle mindfulness and self-compassion practice to support patience and emotional regulation as you reconnect.

How It Works

1. Each partner complete the Relationship Strength Assessment.
2. Use the guidebook and journal to reflect on your results
3. Acknowledge where things are working well, and identify one or two areas to focus on.
4. Choose the matching tools, and exercises.
5. Work through them together at a steady, manageable pace

There’s no rush, and no pressure. Just yourselves making a consistent effort over time.

Created by an Experienced Couples Counsellor

Every element of this kit has been developed through my years of working with couples, navigating communication breakdowns, loss of connection, and relationship struggles.
I’ve brought together my most effective resources into one simple, structured package, so you stop drifting apart, and can begin turning your relationship around in a self-guided way.

What Couples Often Notice

• Less tension between you.
• Less emotional turmoil.
• More respect, care and meaningful conversations
• Renewed hope and a sense of teamwork – you’re in this together.
• A clear direction, about what to work on next.

Pricing & Access

Virtual Relationship Repair Kit – $159
Available worldwide. Instant access to all digital tools and resources.

Physical Relationship Repair Kit – $199
Australia only. Includes all physical card decks plus full digital access.
Free Australia-wide delivery.

✔ Instant access to the Relationship Strength Assessment
✔ Digital guidebooks and journal included
✔ Physical kits in stock and ready to ship

A Supportive First Step

The Relationship Repair Kit is ideal if you want to start working on your relationship from home in a practical, self-guided way.

If you feel you’d benefit from personalised, in-depth professional support, you’re welcome to learn more about my Couples Counselling services and my Save My Marriage Program