Relationship Repair Kit

A guided self-help kit for couples who want to begin repairing their relationship from home.

The Relationship Repair Kit brings together Jacqui’s practical couples resources into one clear pathway, so you are not left wondering where to start or how to use each tool.

Start with the Relationship Strength Assessment and Personal Report to identify areas of strength, strain and growth. Then follow the Relationship Repair Kit Guidebook, which helps you use each resource at the right time.

Use Smooth Conversations to support calmer communication, Life Values to create shared meaning and deeper understanding, and Love Sparks to rebuild warmth, appreciation and everyday connection.

Choose the Physical Kit (Australia only, includes physical + virtual versions) or the Virtual Kit (available worldwide).

For personal, in-depth Couples Counselling – explore Jacqui’s Save My Marriage Program

Price range: $159.00 through $199.00

A Self-Guided Relationship Repair Kit

By Jacqueline Hogan – Couples Counsellor

Create clarity, connection and a positive reset from the comfort of home.

The Relationship Repair Kit is designed for couples who want to start working on their relationship at their own pace, with practical tools and gentle guidance.

At the heart of the kit is the Relationship Repair Kit Guidebook – a clear, step-by-step guide that brings the resources together and helps you know where to start, what to focus on, and how to use each tool in a meaningful way.

Rather than giving you a collection of helpful resources and leaving you to work it out alone, the guidebook helps you move through the kit with more structure and confidence.

What This Kit Helps You Do

The Relationship Repair Kit helps you:

  • Make sense of where your relationship is right now.
  • Identify areas of strength, strain and growth.
  • Improve communication without arguments or blame.
  • Rebuild warmth, appreciation, and emotional safety.
  • Create more shared meaning and direction.
  • Focus your energy on what matters most, instead of trying everything at once.

Each element builds on the next, creating a gentle but structured path toward calmer conversations and deeper connection.

What’s Included

1. Relationship Repair Kit Guidebook

Your guide to the whole kit. It helps you decide where to begin, which resources fit your needs and how to use them without trying to do everything at once.

2. Relationship Strength Assessment and Personal Report

Each partner completes the assessment to explore areas of strength, strain and growth. The included Relationship Strength Personal Report goes beyond an overall score, using your individual answers to explore your relationship on a deeper level.

Explore your relationship from three perspectives — Me, You and Us. Get question-level feedback to spark a meaningful conversation, and considered next steps.

Relationship Strength Guidebook and Journal

The Guidebook helps you understand your assessment results and consider practical next steps.

The Journal provides space for private reflection and conversation prompts across all nine relationship-strength areas, so you can explore your insights as you strengthen your relationship.

3. Smooth Conversations – for Calm Communication

When conversations turn tense or go nowhere, this deck helps you slow things down and reconnect with curiosity.

Use these question cards to:

  • Start softly, and communicate calmly and kindly.
  • De-escalate tension and conflict before it spirals.
  • Build emotional safety through understanding.
  • Reconnect and repair with more unity and harmony.
  • Reduce avoidance, blame and shame.

Smooth Conversations is ideal for couples who struggle with communication, conflict, misunderstandings or repeated arguments.

4. Life Values – for Meaning, Alignment and Direction

Understanding each other’s values can shift your relationship profoundly.

These cards and exercises support you to:

  • Discover what truly matters in your relationship.
  • Understand and respect differences.
  • Create shared meaning and direction.
  • Make decisions that align with your shared future.

A deeper sense of meaning and purpose often begins by understanding your values together.

5. Love Sparks – for Daily Connection

Small gestures make a big difference.

Love Sparks are simple, heartfelt relationship affirmations that encourage appreciation, kindness and affection – even when you’re busy.

Use them to:

  • Create positive moments each day
  • Rebuild goodwill and emotional closeness
  • Strengthen your connection through small, meaningful actions

Love Sparks helps bring warmth back into everyday moments, one small spark at a time.

Guided Support  Resources

The kit also includes additional resources to support reflection, reconnection and emotional steadiness as you work through the process.

Vision Board Kit

Explore shared hopes and goals for the next chapter of your relationship.

Use the Vision Board Kit to reflect on the kind of relationship you want to create together, and begin shaping a more hopeful direction for the future.

Think, Love & Kindness Program

A mindfulness and self-compassion program to support patience, emotional awareness and calmer responses as you reconnect.

This resource is especially helpful when emotions feel high, old patterns are triggered, or you need support returning to a more grounded state.

How to use the kit

  1. Each partner completes the Relationship Strength Assessment and gets their Personal Report.
  2. Use the guidebooks and journal to reflect on your results and strengths.
  3. Choose one or two areas that could benefit from attention.
  4. Follow the Relationship Repair Kit Guidebook to select the most helpful cards, prompts and exercises.
  5. Work through things together at a pace that feels manageable, and return to your reflections as things change.

The aim is steady, practical progress. You can begin with a quiet reflection, a calmer conversation or a small moment of connection.

Created by an Experienced Couples Counsellor

Every element of this kit has been developed through my years of working with couples, navigating communication breakdowns, loss of connection, emotional distance and relationship struggles.
I’ve brought together my most helpful resources into one simple, structured package, so you can stop drifting further apart and begin turning your relationship around in a self-guided way.

What Couples Often Notice

  • Less tension between you.
  • Less emotional turmoil.
  • More respect, care and meaningful conversations.
  • A renewed sense of hope and teamwork.
  • A clearer direction about what to work on next.

Pricing & Access

Virtual Relationship Repair Kit – $159
Available worldwide.
Access all the virtual tools and resources online.

Physical Relationship Repair Kit – $199
Australia only.
Includes all physical card decks plus full digital access.
Free Australia-wide delivery.

✔ Instant access to the Relationship Strength Assessment
✔ Digital guidebooks and journal included
✔ Physical kits in stock and ready to ship

 

A Supportive First Step

The Relationship Repair Kit is ideal if you want to start working on your relationship from home in a practical, self-guided way.

If you feel you’d benefit from personalised, in-depth professional support, you’re welcome to learn more about my Couples Counselling services and my Save My Marriage Program

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