Couples Counselling Melbourne
with Jacqui Hogan

Looking for Couples Counseling Near Melbourne?
Jacqui is an experienced couples counsellor in McCrae on the Mornington Peninsula, just an easy hour drive from Melbourne.
Jacqui’s private and comfortable counselling space is perfect for couples therapy, and is easily accessed by the Mornington Peninsula Freeway.
Weekend appointment times are available, perfect for a therapeutic escape from the city.



In-Person Sessions & Online Couples Counselling
Melbourne based couples can start couples counselling online, or choose to see Jacqui in person at her McCrae location on the Mornington Peninsula.
- Repair your relationship with Jacqui at her private McCrae location. Just south of Melbourne.
- Connect online with Jacqui via Zoom for convenient and effective couples counselling from the comfort of home.
- Longer 90 minute sesions allow space for deep work to acheive breakthroughs and work through difficult, sensitive & complex themes.
- Experience the benefits of a 2-day couples counselling retreat. Repair your relationship with 'intensive couples therapy'. Relax & stay on the beautiful Mornington Peninsula.
Get in Touch

What's Going on For You?
Call Jacqui now for a free short chat about what’s going on for you, or request a callback using the form below.
If Jacqui feels she can help you, you’ll be invited to book a 90 minute discovery session, with you and your partner.
Your discovery session is a welcome relief. It’s a positive experience for most couples, and you’ll feel much more at ease, and hopeful for the future.
Let Jacqui Call You Back
For Couples Drifting Apart
Let’s turn the tide and get love flowing in the right direction again.
With compassionate support and practical tools, I help couples navigate even the most complex challenges. Together, we’ll work to rebuild your connection and create a stronger, more fulfilling relationship by addressing issues such as…
Ongoing Conflict
Out-of-control arguments and escalating conflict can strain your relationship and impact those around you, including your children. But with the right tools and support, you can restore calm, and create a more harmonious home.
Broken Trust & Betrayal
Broken trust, lies, and betrayal can deeply harm a relationship, and it’s no surprise that infidelity is a leading cause of separation and divorce. However, through Couples Counselling and fostering a shared understanding, forgiveness and a path forward can become a reality.
Negative Sentiment
Constantly focusing on the negative and holding onto resentment can slowly erode the connection in your relationship. Left unchecked, it can make communication and understanding feel impossible. But with guidance, you can break the cycle, rediscover the positives in each other, and rebuild a stronger, more compassionate relationship.
Broken Communication
Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling—known as the 'Four Horsemen'—are clear signs of broken communication. While these behaviours can be destructive, a fresh approach can help you replace them with calm, respectful, and healthy ways to communicate.
Severed Connection
Mismatched values, differing goals, and diverging life paths can leave your relationship feeling disconnected. But disconnection doesn’t have to spell the end. By discovering shared hopes, and dreams, with a renewed sense of care, you can reignite the affection, and create a future filled with meaning and purpose.

Avoidant Behaviour
Avoiding the problems in your relationship is a heavy burden to carry leaving you drained and overwhelmed. Depression, sadness, poor sleep, and low energy are common signs of this burden. While some may seek comfort elsewhere, true relief comes from facing the issues together and finding lasting solutions that work for both of you.
Lingering Resentment
Lingering resentment is like a sharp stone in your shoe—always present, making every step painful. While distractions may offer temporary relief, unresolved resentment takes a toll on your mental health and quality of life. By addressing these feelings, healing old wounds, and finding peace, you can transform your relationship and walk a more fulfilling path together.
Unrelenting Pressure & Stress
Daily stress from work, family, finances, children, and health challenges can quickly compound, creating unrelenting pressure on your relationship. Left unmanaged, this stress can spill over into destructive behaviours that destabilise your relationship. By turning toward each other and offering mutual support, you can manage stress in healthy ways and maintain balance in your relationship.
Unfulfilled Dreams & Desires
Frustration and unfulfilled dreams can leave you feeling like life is passing you by. Over time, this sense of emptiness can lead to desperation and loneliness, putting your relationship at risk. But it’s never too late to rediscover your dreams, rekindle hope, and create a fulfilling future together.
Repair Your Relationship
Turn your relationship around with effective couples therapy and save your relationship from further harm.
Reduce Conflict in Your Relationship
Reduce conflict in your relationship by learning to de-escalate tensions and manage emotions with ease. Address underlying issues calmly and embrace a new, healthier way of communicating that brings you closer together.
Rebuild Trust & Support Each Other
Rebuild trust and support each other by working through infidelity, betrayal, and broken trust in a safe and compassionate space. Move beyond feelings of grief, shame, and guilt toward forgiveness and understanding. Together, you can create a stronger relationship built on new standards and healthy communication for a closer, loving connection.
Cherish & Respect Each Other
Cherish and respect each other by letting go of negative thoughts and feelings that cloud your relationship. Break free from unhelpful patterns and behaviours, and welcome positive sentiment into your relationship. Start seeing the ‘good’ in your partner more often and feel closer, happier, accepted, and truly loved.
Healthy Communication
Eliminating the 'Four Horsemen' from your relationship is essential for healing and growth to begin. Once these destructive patterns are behind you, you’ll discover how to have healthy, and respectful conversations that ensure you both feel truly heard and understood.
Create Warm Connection
Discover your shared values and create new rituals of connection. Feel valued and supported by your partner. Find common ground and know how to resolve tension early, to preserve your connection.

Taking Responsibility
True empowerment begins with taking responsibility. Break free from negative thought patterns and outdated beliefs. Strengthen your character, refine your identity, and embrace a renewed sense of purpose to become the best partner you can be. By living in alignment with your values, you can create peace, harmony, and fulfilment in your relationship.
Find Forgiveness & Acceptance
Let go of the past and find forgiveness to repair your relationship for the long term. Build hope for the future with an inspiring shared vision, and deepen trust through positive and loving behaviours.
Reduce Stress with Love & Kindness
Reduce stress with love and kindness. Create healthy boundaries and find positive outlets to protect your relationship. Support one another and work together as a team to navigate life’s challenges with care and understanding.
Fulfilment & Life Balance
Keep your relationship on track with a renewed sense of self-awareness and relational awareness. Create a fulfilling life balance by tuning into each other’s needs and exploring new ways to strengthen the love and connection you share.
Change is Just a Conversation Away
Client Success Stories
About Jacqui
Jacqui is a warm and compassionate Couples Counsellor with over 25 years of counselling experience. Jacqui tailors her approach to your by drawing upon a lifetime of experience and specialist training.
Her most recent and significant Couples Counselling related training includes:
- Gottman Therapy – Level 3
- Relational Life Therapy, Terry Real – Level 3
- Emotionally Focused Therapy – Esther Perel
- Treating Affairs & Trauma – Gottman Institute
- Multi-generational Trauma: Treating the Past to Heal the Present – Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
- Working with Infidelity and Making Love Work – Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
- The Relational Brain – Terry Real & Julianne Shore, Relational Life Institute
- Staying in Love – The Art of Fierce Intimacy, Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
- Grandiose Women and Shut Down Men – Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
Formal education
- Bachelor of Social Work (BASW) – Latrobe University
- Diploma of Counselling Psychology – Ampersand Australia, 2009
My Professional Memberships
- Gottman Relationship Checkup Approved Member
- Australian Association of Social Workers (AASW)


