Couples Counselling Melbourne
Repair Your Relationship with Jacqueline Hogan
In-Person | Online | Retreats
Supporting Couples Across the Mornington Peninsula, Melbourne, and Beyond.


Specialist in Couples Counselling
- Specialising exclusively in Couples Counselling, with extensive experience and advanced training.
- Gottman Method (Level 3) & Relational Life Therapy (RLT) (Level 3).
- Convenient online sessions via Zoom - perfect for busy couples.
- Friendly, compassionate support from a local couples counsellor you can trust.
Looking for In-Person Couples Counselling Near Melbourne?
In addition to online couples counselling, I offer warm and professional couples counselling from my private therapy space in McCrae on the Mornington Peninsula – less than an hour from Melbourne.
Couples love the calm and welcoming atmosphere, complete with beautiful bay views that help set the tone for reconnection.
I also offer weekend sessions, perfect if you’re after a peaceful and convenient break from the city to repair your relationship.

Prefer the Convenience of Online Sessions?
Looking for Deeper Breakthroughs Sooner?
For Couples Drifting Apart
Let’s turn the tide and get love flowing in the right direction again.
With compassionate support and practical tools, I help couples navigate even the most complex challenges. Together, we’ll work to repair and rebuild your connection to create a stronger, more fulfilling relationship by addressing issues such as…
Ongoing Conflict
Out-of-control arguments and escalating conflict can strain your relationship and impact those around you, including your children. But with the right tools and support, you can restore calm, and create a more harmonious home.
Broken Trust & Betrayal
Broken trust, lies, and betrayal can deeply harm a relationship, and it’s no surprise that infidelity is a leading cause of separation and divorce. However, through Couples Counselling and fostering a shared understanding, forgiveness and a path forward can become a reality.
Negative Sentiment
Constantly focusing on the negative and holding onto resentment can slowly erode the connection in your relationship. Left unchecked, it can make communication and understanding feel impossible. But with guidance, you can break the cycle, rediscover the positives in each other, and rebuild a stronger, more compassionate relationship.
Broken Communication
Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling—known as the 'Four Horsemen'—are clear signs of broken communication. While these behaviours can be destructive, a fresh approach can help you replace them with calm, respectful, and healthy ways to communicate.
Severed Connection
Mismatched values, differing goals, and diverging life paths can leave your relationship feeling disconnected. But disconnection doesn’t have to spell the end. By discovering shared hopes, and dreams, with a renewed sense of care, you can reignite the affection, and create a future filled with meaning and purpose.

Avoidant Behaviour
Avoiding the problems in your relationship is a heavy burden to carry leaving you drained and overwhelmed. Depression, sadness, poor sleep, and low energy are common signs of this burden. While some may seek comfort elsewhere, true relief comes from facing the issues together and finding lasting solutions that work for both of you.
Lingering Resentment
Lingering resentment is like a sharp stone in your shoe—always present, making every step painful. While distractions may offer temporary relief, unresolved resentment takes a toll on your mental health and quality of life. By addressing these feelings, healing old wounds, and finding peace, you can transform your relationship and walk a more fulfilling path together.
Unrelenting Pressure & Stress
Daily stress from work, family, finances, children, and health challenges can quickly compound, creating unrelenting pressure on your relationship. Left unmanaged, this stress can spill over into destructive behaviours that destabilise your relationship. By turning toward each other and offering mutual support, you can manage stress in healthy ways and maintain balance in your relationship.
Unfulfilled Dreams & Desires
Frustration and unfulfilled dreams can leave you feeling like life is passing you by. Over time, this sense of emptiness can lead to desperation and loneliness, putting your relationship at risk. But it’s never too late to rediscover your dreams, rekindle hope, and create a fulfilling future together.
Repair Your Relationship
Turn your relationship around with effective couples therapy and save your relationship from further harm.
Reduce Conflict in Your Relationship
Reduce conflict in your relationship by learning to de-escalate tensions and manage emotions with ease. Address underlying issues calmly and embrace a new, healthier way of communicating that brings you closer together.
Rebuild Trust & Support Each Other
Rebuild trust and support each other by working through infidelity, betrayal, and broken trust in a safe and compassionate space. Move beyond feelings of grief, shame, and guilt toward forgiveness and understanding. Together, you can create a stronger relationship built on new standards and healthy communication for a closer, loving connection.
Cherish & Respect Each Other
Cherish and respect each other by letting go of negative thoughts and feelings that cloud your relationship. Break free from unhelpful patterns and behaviours, and welcome positive sentiment into your relationship. Start seeing the ‘good’ in your partner more often and feel closer, happier, accepted, and truly loved.
Healthy Communication
Eliminating the 'Four Horsemen' from your relationship is essential for healing and growth to begin. Once these destructive patterns are behind you, you’ll discover how to have healthy, and respectful conversations that ensure you both feel truly heard and understood.
Create Warm Connection
Discover your shared values and create new rituals of connection. Feel valued and supported by your partner. Find common ground and know how to resolve tension early, to preserve your connection.

Taking Responsibility
True empowerment begins with taking responsibility. Break free from negative thought patterns and outdated beliefs. Strengthen your character, refine your identity, and embrace a renewed sense of purpose to become the best partner you can be. By living in alignment with your values, you can create peace, harmony, and fulfilment in your relationship.
Find Forgiveness & Acceptance
Let go of the past and find forgiveness to repair your relationship for the long term. Build hope for the future with an inspiring shared vision, and deepen trust through positive and loving behaviours.
Reduce Stress with Love & Kindness
Reduce stress with love and kindness. Create healthy boundaries and find positive outlets to protect your relationship. Support one another and work together as a team to navigate life’s challenges with care and understanding.
Fulfilment & Life Balance
Keep your relationship on track with a renewed sense of self-awareness and relational awareness. Create a fulfilling life balance by tuning into each other’s needs and exploring new ways to strengthen the love and connection you share.
Get in Touch with Jacqui
Start couples counselling online, or choose to see me in person at my peaceful McCrae location on the Mornington Peninsula – a short drive from Melbourne.
The first step is to get in touch, and let me know what’s going for you.

What's Going on For You?
Call Jacqui now for a free short chat about what’s going on for you, or request a callback using the form below.
If Jacqui feels she can help you, you’ll be invited to book a 90 minute discovery session, with you and your partner.
Your discovery session is a welcome relief. It’s a positive experience for most couples, and you’ll feel much more at ease, and hopeful for the future.
Let Jacqui Call You Back
Client Success Stories
About Jacqui Hogan - Specialist in Marriage & Couples Counselling
Jacqui is a warm and compassionate Couples Counsellor with over 25 years of counselling experience – the last 8 dedicated to helping couples.
Jacqui tailors her approach to your unique relationship needs and preferred ways of learning and connecting.
Drawing on both personal experience and specialist training, she offers practical, empathetic support to help couples rebuild trust, deepen emotional connection, and create stronger, healthier relationships.
Specialist Training in Couples Therapy
- Gottman Therapy – Level 3
- Relational Life Therapy, Terry Real – Level 3
- Emotionally Focused Therapy – Esther Perel
- Treating Affairs & Trauma – Gottman Institute
- Multi-generational Trauma: Treating the Past to Heal the Present – Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
- Working with Infidelity and Making Love Work – Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
- The Relational Brain – Terry Real & Julianne Shore, Relational Life Institute
- Staying in Love – The Art of Fierce Intimacy, Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
- Grandiose Women and Shut Down Men – Terry Real, Relational Life Institute
Formal education
- Bachelor of Social Work (BASW) – Latrobe University
- Diploma of Counselling Psychology – Ampersand Australia, 2009
My Professional Memberships
- Gottman Relationship Checkup Approved Member
- Australian Association of Social Workers (AASW)


